Obituaries

Albertus Bysterbusch
B: 1932-08-14
D: 2017-08-14
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Bysterbusch, Albertus
Verna Kling
B: 1922-03-06
D: 2017-08-09
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Kling, Verna
Edward Darella
B: 1932-12-14
D: 2017-08-08
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Darella, Edward
Paul Beverly
B: 1953-05-21
D: 2017-08-01
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Beverly, Paul
Claude Verduin
D: 2017-07-30
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Verduin, Claude
Lorraine Gentile
B: 1933-03-28
D: 2017-07-25
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Gentile, Lorraine
Norma Tarantino
B: 1929-10-26
D: 2017-07-25
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Tarantino, Norma
Phyllis Itjen
B: 1951-10-13
D: 2017-07-24
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Itjen, Phyllis
Doris Hennen
B: 1927-12-20
D: 2017-07-21
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Hennen, Doris
Linda Hartley
D: 2017-07-20
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Hartley, Linda
Polly Kochin
B: 1917-10-26
D: 2017-07-19
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Kochin, Polly
Yun Chang
B: 1919-03-15
D: 2017-07-18
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Chang, Yun
John Allen
B: 1930-04-09
D: 2017-07-16
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Allen, John
Ann Brady
B: 1951-10-23
D: 2017-07-11
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Brady, Ann
Rachele Burchell
B: 1942-11-08
D: 2017-07-09
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Burchell, Rachele
Carol Blanchfield
B: 1944-12-28
D: 2017-07-08
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Blanchfield, Carol
James Ruitenberg
B: 1927-09-11
D: 2017-07-08
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Ruitenberg, James
Martin Schottanes
B: 1929-06-15
D: 2017-06-25
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Schottanes, Martin
Jan Karwowski
B: 1940-11-15
D: 2017-06-18
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Karwowski, Jan
Elisabeth Abridello
B: 1943-10-14
D: 2017-06-18
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Abridello, Elisabeth
Lillian Collins
B: 1927-05-22
D: 2017-06-13
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Collins, Lillian

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Simple Memorial ServiceRather than opting to do things "the same old way", many families today want to celebrate the life of a loved one. Many funeral service professionals see this change as one of the many contributions to social change made by 'Baby Boomers'. The National Funeral Directors Association notes, "As baby boomers age and find themselves having to plan funerals for loved ones and themselves, they are making funeral choices based on values that are different than previous generations. Baby boomers see funerals as a valuable part of the grieving process and are seeking ways to make them meaningful." If you too desire to make the funeral for a loved one more engaging and personally meaningful, a simple memorial service may be the perfect concept to build on.

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  2. The Funeral Service
  3. A Committal Service
  4. The Funeral Reception

A traditional funeral then is a series of events; it's a ritualized process where the deceased, and the attendees, pass from one social status to another; a process where the torn fabric of a family and community is repaired. According to the online article "Six Characteristics of Helpful Ceremonies", by William Hoy, Director of Grief Connect, this is done by including:

  1. Symbols of shared significance intended to communicate beyond words
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  3. Gathered people providing comfort to one another
  4. Connection to heritage through recognized readings
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